And as the civilization set us apart from the native, being polite is one essential criteria to brand a person as civilized or animal, the simplest act of being polite involve apologizing and seek forgiveness.
A quote saying..
sorry seems to be the hardest word...i'd like to add
sorry seems to be the hardest word...i'd like to add
Sorry seems to be the hardest word to both party:
1. People who do wrong
2.People who are wronged
The first type understandably will view 'sorry' as a difficult word for the act of saying sorry will force them to admit their mistake and subject to the need to repent. understandably, apart from monk, admit one mistake is the harshest punishment for someone's ego.
The second type, however
Sorry seems to be the most difficult word because
1. To forgive other's wrong deed to us cost us more than just nice heart, we need to be really strong to let go of all the bitter memory and pain brought by the culprit.
2. The act of seeking forgiveness make it final the person in question is guilty. and it hurts especially when the person in question topped rank in your heart.
Sungguh pedih, sedih.....
No comments:
Post a Comment